What is tantric sex?

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Sting famously said he was at it for eight hours but later admitted that it was exaggerated for effect. In reality tantric sex is a far less time consuming way to boost your sex life.

The idea of tantric sex is a spiritual act. People have been practising tantric sex for 5,000 years so there must be something to it.

What is tantric sex?

Tantra is an ancient Eastern spiritual practise that is thought to have been in existence for over 5,000 years. It means “the weaving and expansion of energy”, and the teachings of Tantra were initially not focused on sexuality but were more about mastering and understanding our own energy.

The amazing sex was just a happy by-product. The Originally the purpose of Tantra was not to have better sex or to improve relationships. The purpose was to help people reach a higher consciousness. The sexual practices were designed to provide the practitioner with orgasmic intensity as a pathway to divine energy. It was never about having more enjoyable, sex. It was a spiritual training.

You may be disappointed to learn that despite all of the talk about the amazing sexual peaks tantric sex can bring it is not all about the big bang orgasm. Instead the practice is more about riding a wave of sensations rather than seeking out one big “O” moment.

So what parts of tantric sex can you put into practice?

Focus on your breathing

Breathing deeply increases relaxation and decreases tension and stress, as well as helping you focus on pleasure and bringing more oxygen into your blood stream. Try to make your breathing a conscious rather than a subconscious act, to help you focus on your body and the pleasure it can bring you.

Don’t just use touch but also focus on taste, sight, smell and sound to help you awaken your senses and make sense a more all-encompassing experience. Try bringing music into the bedroom, or food, such as chocolate or fruit. Maybe bring a blindfold so that your partner isn’t relying on sight to excite them but instead touch and smells.

Talk to each other

Not about about day to day things, like what you need to do around the house or what food to eat. We mean sex talk. Tell your partner if you like what they’re doing, or how they could improve the experience for you. Open the lines of communication and rather than just moaning when you are enjoying a certain position verbalise why you like it.

Set aside some time

We don’t have hours on end in the day for sex, but set aside some time for each other when you are not going to be interrupted by anything else. Schedule a time during the week where you can spend an hour or two focusing on each other – and stick to it.

Share a tantric kiss

Tantric kissing is more than just locking lips. We often forget that our lips are one of the most sensuous arts of our bodies, with countless nerve endings, hundreds more than our fingertips. But don’t use your tongue. The tongue is usually not used in tantric kissing, and when it is, it is only a little, and very delicately.

For beginners you can try this technique, from Transformational Tantra , by Carla Tara:

• First, relax all your facial muscles. You want your lips and mouth to be open and welcoming. Close your eyes, breathe deeply into your belly and let go.

• Kiss your partner’s upper lip (Yang) . Use both your lips to embrace their upper lip. Let your lips be open and full. Suck gently.

• Then kiss your partner’s lower lip (Yin). Fully enjoy all the sensations. Explore the rich softness of your lover’s lip.

• Kiss your partner’s lips together. Do the full embrace and feel how your partner’s excitement builds.

Try the Yab Yum pose

This traditional tantric pose is a wonderful way to connect intimately with your beloved. The male partner sits down cross legged, while the female sits down on top of his legs facing him (you can do this naked or with your clothes on). Embrace each other and breathe fully together. It’s a slow form of sex that’s said to increase intimacy and create a mind-body connection that can lead to powerful orgasms.

Modern Tantra

The practice of Classic Tantra benefits everyone, especially couples because it transforms at the individual level. By practicing a Tantric life style, couples find balance, harmony and fulfilment within instead of demanding/expecting it (from a) partner. That path usually leads to guilt, resentment, depression and the eventual dissolution of the domestic alliance.

Tantra offers couples a way to approach their relationship as a sacred experience, both in and out of the bedroom. Bringing conscious attention to shared time together is what keeps love alive.

Sex offers greater potential for pleasure when both partners are aware and mindful. Our senses awaken when our hearts are open. A Tantra workshop or coach offers the opportunity to learn to apply Tantra principles to one’s life.

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