5 BEST TIPS ON HOW TO BOOTY CALL RIGHT

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5 BEST TIPS ON HOW TO BOOTY CALL RIGHT

 We are fast approaching old age. While spontaneity is all well and good in certain circumstances, when it becomes a person’s M.O then things get a bit dull, not to mention transparent. Texting someone because you happen to bored, have nothing exciting going in your sad little life and are simply looking for someone to fill whatever void you’ve got going, is not appropriate behavior for mediocre men. In fact, expecting a person to avail themselves to pander to you at a moments notice is just downright rude on so many levels.

It’s important to understand that most of us get to an age where the main aim of hosting a party is making sure everyone (except perhaps your significant other) is out of your house by 9pm so you can read before bed and still get enough sleep to be able to hit the gym at 5am.

Anyway, the exception to this rule about having a pre-determined routines which aren’t open to being derailed by just anyone is when the person who looks you up on a whim is a booty call.  A job role which comes with certain requirements and expectations which must be executed correctly if the arrangement is to be success.

Here are the 5 best tips on how to do a booty call right as recommended by  Sussex Escorts

 KNOW WHERE YOU STAND

Look, while it may not be the most respectable position to hold in a person’s life, not everyone can occupied by a booty caller. It happens between two people who have great chemistry but lack long-term compatibility. So don’t go into such an arrangement hoping that things will develop further. The odds are not in your favour.

It also helps if you can keep other parts of your lives separate. So avoid having mutual friends, shared work spaces and the like. Naturally, this is easier said than done in a small world places like Cape Town, but it’s something that you should bear in mind.

KEEP YOUR FEELINGS OUT OF IT

Being the NSA encounter that it is important neither party has any great expectations and emotions are left at the door (honestly, it’s really not for everyone). For example, don’t be expecting this person to be meeting your parents or showering you with flowers. Coming over with a bottle of wine is probably as good as it gets. Also, remember this is a casual encounter, it’s meant to be fun so if you call up your booty call and they are otherwise engaged, they are under no obligation to explain themselves and there can be no hard feelings.

IT IS NOT A DOWNGRADE

Relationship sex is probably the best sex you’ll ever get. But it isn’t always available and for fear of regaining one’s virginity, aspiring WISOs must get their fix somewhere. That said, in such instances it’s not advisable to seek comfort in the of an ex. It really isn’t always a case of better the devil you know.

Even if you guys were a better match in bed than you were in other areas of life, downgrading a former meaningful relationship to a lowly booty call isn’t good for anyone involved. Break-ups are generally rubbish, and throwing your carnaldesires into the mix won’t make things any easier. Remember one of the key elements to having a successfulbooty call is keeping emotions out of it and unfortunately that is a somewhat impossible feat when it comes to a person you once envisioned happily ever after with.

NO GUARANTEES—MANAGE YOUR EXPECTATIONS

Like with most things casual, there are no guarantees. Booty calls don’t tend to have a pre-determined start and end dates. The other party really owes you nothing. They could be here today and gone tomorrow. It is not simply a case of keeping your feelings out of the mix but also preempting the fact that this encounter could come to an end at any moment.

It’s easy to get comfortable. For some, a very well-managed booty call arrangement may even seem like more win/win than a real relationship—great sex but less tears, family drama and politics to deal involved.  Enjoy it while it lasts but also keep your eyes open for other more stable romantic opportunities.

IT’S ABOUT GREAT SEX (BE SURE YOU CAN PROVIDE THAT AS A MINIMUM) AND NOTHING ELSE

Maybe I’m stating the obvious, although experience has shown me that it is sometimes necessary.  But, sex (preferably mind-blowingly good sex) is a prerequisite in such an arrangement. As a disclaimer, let me add that it should be technically good sex  but it won’t necessarily (in fact, it shouldn’t) come with any sort of emotional connection.

So, if you don’t think you can deliver in this department then it’s probably to avoid any sense of ‘betrayal’ by not offering to pop in of an evening.

To conclude, booty calls have a purpose. They are great for when you have an itch that needs to be scratched. There are times in your life where something light and fluffy is just what you need. That said, they aren’t for everyone. You need to understand the limitations of engaging in a casual encounter and manage your expectations accordingly. If you are someone who gets attached easily or tries to find meaning in everything, maybe steer clear.

Also, if you fear that your worlds could collide and this isn’t something for public consumption perhaps it’s better to find something a little more anonymous. So all in all, impromptu sexual encounters, if entered into with the right person and with a proper understanding of the limits of  such arrangement can be a hugely beneficial and convenient experience.

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